Only you can control what you do. Of course you can play games and manipulate, but there is never any guarantees except for responsibility for our actions. I think I have just lived through a perfect example, if you attempt to control how others act, you will end up in emotional bondage. You just can't keep anyone happy all the time, and still do you.
When I get in my lab to work, or write and my girl let's me know she is feeling unappreciated, or neglected. Immediately creativity halts, and comes to a fucken standstill. There is no blowing it off, and saying whatever. Maybe that works with girlfriends you don't live with, but when it's your wife, and you live together. You have no where to go, and get your work done without dealing with the situation or scrapping any plans of progress and focus.
Energy turns bitter and frustrated, feeling like it's being persecuted for being itself, and has to defend it's ground as if talking for the sake of talking is more important. I get all in my head, pissed off about the lack of privacy and lack of respect for my work and desires to gets some shit done.
So after the 2-5 min mood altering sour conversation, I end up fuming wanting to fucken break something. I'm right your wrong is the same old dance, and usually someones ego has to be a doormat for the jamboree to end without sayin some real mean ass shit. Been there done that, and I acknowledge that my reactions are mine, and my responsibility to manage. Everyone else can carry there own baggage, being a bell boy is a waste of time, I've got my own luggage to manage.
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